Me and my wife have 2 children together and i have a 4 year old son with another women and i just got back in his life after about 2 years because i moved away and traveled for my job and we are starting to see him now and I'm trying to get joint custody of him but i owe the mother back child support would they still look at me as a bad father if i was trying to get him back into my life and had a stable home and job ..and the mother is living off the government and she got arrested for heroin and child neglect with injury and the child was sexually abused while he was in foster care and they wouldn't like me take my child because he was in wv and i was in tx i would have had to quit my job and move back up here and never would have found a job here or a house in that amount of time so he stayed in foster care for 7 months while she was in rehab just getting a slap on the wrist..so what do you think my chances are of getting joint custody I'm trying to make everything rite nsf and for the record for those of you that think i left my x for a nother women because im just a dead beat your wrong because I didn't she was abusive to me mentaly and physicly and what was i suppost to do when all she ever did was fight with me infront of my child and leave me when he was 6 months old and went with a drug addict that i didn't know about untill she went to jail for narcotics so there for im not the bad one and i have had it ruff the past 2 years every job is dead end she went to court stating i made 2700 a month when i was in texas and i was only making 1200 a month and they exspected me to pay her 500 a month so i dont know how that works but yeah!
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Answer 1 :
Oh Im sorry you are a wonderful man, getting better and better. you left her because she was abusive and you couldnt handle it but you expected your son to handle her. Right? And its ok if she goes off with a drug addict with your son, because you have had it rough. Im just wondering, Who do you think has had it more rough you or your son?
Answer 2 :
yea, your a real prince, you deserted that child and left him to deal with someone you couldn't deal with, if you had been visiting and oh seeing him regularly you would have known these things, yes they do let children go with parents across state lines buddy, they just have cps watch them in that state, THE REAL REASON THAT THEY DIDN'T LET YOU TAKE HIM TO TEXAS WAS BECAUSE YOU ABANDONED HIM YOU FOOL OH YOU POOR BABY YOU HAD IT ROUGH FOR THE LAST 2 YEARS HOW ROUGH DO YOU THINK HE HAD IT AND HE WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN IN FOSTER CARE AND BEEN MOLESTED IF YOU HAD BEEN A MAN AND STOOD UP FOR YOUR BOY, SO YOU ARE EVEN MORE TO BLAME THAN SHE IS WHY YOU ASK, BECAUSE YOU HAD ALL YOU WITS ABOUT YOU AND SHE WAS IN A CLOUD OF DRUGS, NOT AN EXCUSE FOR HER BUT A REASON, they wouldn't have believed her about the money if you cared enough to contact the court and just mail them a stupid pay stub, of course they still think of you as a bad father because you are and you will continue to be UNTIL YOU STOP WHINING, BLAMING OTHERS AND ACT LIKE A GROWN UP, THIS CHILD WOULD BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU IN A GRANDPARENTS CARE OR SOMETHING UNTIL YOU GROW UP AND STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR SHORTCOMINGS, DALE T
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