Thursday, January 21, 2010

Do you think individuals can learn empathy from something like a one-month CIP experience? Explain

Do you think individuals can learn empathy from something like a one-month CIP experience? Explain?
Mark Colvard, a United Parcel manager in San Ramon, California, recently faced a difficult decision. One of his drivers asked for two weeks off to help an ailing family member. But company rules said this driver wasn’t eligible. If Colvard went by the book, the driver would probably take the days off anyway and be fired. On the other hand, Colvard was likely to be criticized by other drivers if he bent the rules. Colvard chose to give the driver the time off. While he took some heat for the decision, he also kept a valuable employee. Had Colvard been faced with this decision six months earlier, he says he would have gone the other way. What changed his thinking was a month he spent living in McAllen, Texas. It was part of a UPS management training experience called the Community Internship Program (CIP). During his month in McAllen, Colvard built housing for the poor, collected clothing for the Salvation Army, and worked in a drug rehab center. Colvard gives the program credit for helping him empathize with employees facing crises back home. And he says that CIP has made him a better manager. “My goal was to make the numbers, and in some cases that meant not looking at the individual but looking at the bottom line. After that one-month stay, I immediately started reaching out to people in a different way.”
Languages - 2 Answers
People's Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
Answer 1 :
Of course they can. They don't have to change their basic moral code, just their perspective. The manager probably had empathy all along, he just thought it was inappropriate to use it in the workplace. In the case cited, the ethic of personal responsibility to the company's prosperity remained unchanged. What changed was the realization that including the human side of the equation was not mutually exclusive of or detrimental to the bottom line, but rather, actually helped employee morale and thus increased long-term productivity.
Answer 2 :
I will hazard a guess that the seeds of empathy already sprouting within him when Colvard signed up for the program are what inspired him to sign up in the first place. A month of exposure to other empathatic individuals is more than enough time to fertilize the sprouted seeds and to give him tips on how to expand the garden of empathy to a culturally functional level. What you feed is what grows.





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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Is it possible to enter into the military with an arrest for possession of marijuana on your record

Is it possible to enter into the military with an arrest for possession of marijuana on your record?
A long time ago when i was 17 I was arrested for possession of marijuana under 2 ounces in Texas because it was found in the vehicle i was in despite not having any knowledge of it being there. I was then handcuffed and forced to stand outside for 3 hours in below freezing weather at night till they finally took me to the station. They waited about 4 to 5 months to file the information on me because i turned 18 in about 2 months. Had i gone to court before i turned 18 it would be on my juvenile record and disregarded by the military. I had plans to join the Army and was perfectly fit and able with an ASVAB score of 80. Here in Texas a jury court don't care about whats right or wrong, only pointing out the law. So even though i had no knowledge of the weed being there and the tape proves it, its still a possession. So i accepted the prosecutor's terms and am on 6 months probation with 40 hours of community service and court ordered drug rehab. Remind you its not a charge or a conviction, it shows up as an arrest. So is there any way i could enlist into any military branch. Preferably the Army.
Military - 3 Answers
People's Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
Answer 1 :
Talk to your recruiter. Chances are you're going to have to get a drug waiver, but other than that you're probably good to go. There's a kid in my class who has a possession conviction, (and a kid who got arrested twice for taking a dump in a Dumpster while drunk) and he's fine. He's even getting a top secret clearance. Mike
Answer 2 :
Yes. First, you tell the recruiter. However do NOT do it the way you did it above. You gave way too much information and it makes it look like you are accusing the cops of misconduct in how they treated you, how the filed the arrest report, etc. I cleaned it up for you here. "When i was 17 I was arrested for possession of marijuana under 2 ounces in Texas because it was in a car I was driving. It was not mine but since I was the driver, I was arrested for it. I accepted a plea bargain got probation, community service and ordered to go to drug rehab classes." Once you tell him that, shut up. If he wants more information he will ask for it. You will have to make absolutely sure you do not test positive for pot. If you have a pot conviction on your record AND you test positive that will the end of it and none of the services will take you.
Answer 3 :
Army is not going to let you join with that on your record at the moment. They have a ton of people who want in and they're being really picky on who is joining.




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Thursday, January 7, 2010

How to get my record clean or get my driver's license

How to get my record clean or get my driver's license?
I recently turned 18, and have been driving since I was 14, however I do not have my driver's license or even a permit. I am not here to brag about my actions or for you guys to tell me what I'm doing is wrong, I know it's wrong. However, I want to get my record "clean" and be able to get my license. I'm about to get my own place and go to college and basically be an adult, and I need my license to really get a decent start to this life. I don't know how many specifics are needed, but I will let you guys know of my three encounters with the law. I will also let you guys know what I'm doing to get my license and I hope you guys can help me or give me advice. ------------------------------------------------------------------ Age: 14 Violations: Driving without a driver's license, Failing to yield at a stoplight, Expired plates Outcome: License - agreed to go to Teen Court Yield - paid for it Plates - dismissed Problem: Never registered or attended Teen Court -------------------------------------------------------------------- Age: 15 Violations: Minor in possession of tobacco, profanity in a school zone (or disturbing classes, forgot what) Outcome: Never showed up for court Problem: Well, I never showed up to court, so yeah. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Age: 16 Violations: Burglary of a habitation, Possession with intent, Evading arrest with a motor vehicle, crossing county lines, speeding, assault with a deadly weapon Outcome: Differed prosecution on all charges (Due to no priors, excellent school attendance, and excellent grades) if I took a 90 day drug rehab program Problem: Don't know if the traffic violations affect my chances of getting a license --------------------------------------------------------------------- OK, I'm in Texas. All the violations were committed in the same city/county, but I don't live there anymore. I still live in Texas, just not in that city. I am taking the online IDriveSafely courses due to Texas requiring it for new drivers that never took driver's ed. I guess my questions are: -Are this tickets still outstanding since they happened while I was a minor? -What can I do to get my license? -What are my chances of me going back to that courthouse and getting arrested on the spot? -Should I ask for a payment plan (Being a college kid, I'm short on funds at the moment, but wouldn't mind making monthly payments or so)? -What are my chances of getting my license WITHOUT taking care of these tickets?
Law Enforcement & Police - 1 Answers
People's Answers, Critics, Comments, Opinions :
Answer 1 :
As long as you're not still on probation for the Burglary, you're 18 now, so juvenile records are what they call "expunged" or sealed. Since you got caught before you had a license, they might have suspended the time it takes you to be eligible for reinstatement. If I were you, I'd simply call your local DMV office and ask, "When will I be eligible to take the driver's test?" As long as you weren't tried as an adult for the burglary, you shouldn't have any problems getting an apartment or going to college. Hell, you can be a felon and go to college online anyway. I've arrested many felons who rent apartments. ;) You'll be fine.





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